Hi ladies and gentlemen, hero is back. How you guys doing hopefully ok ^^. But not for me. This i want to discuss for today. Im actually want to find someone special in my life. Yes GIRLFRIEND. Im fall in love with my office mate, dont know how to tell her. HuHuHu.. silly me. For those who concern, here is some tips to attract someone special near you. Enjoy and keep trying dont give-up. Just dont be like me.
Forget everything you think you know about attraction because the chances are that you are doing it all wrong. Despite what you think you know about attraction its actually a lot more physiological than you realise. Women do not consciously choose their partners they are simply attracted to a man's behavior.
Similarly, losing attraction is the same process - because of the way you behaved (only this time it was unfavorable).
Women lose attraction to men simply because they stop displaying the traits that a female finds attractive. Women are pre programmed to be attracted by these traits without even realising it, which is how we can benefit from displaying and showcasing them at the correct time.
There are a number of unattractive traits that I concentrate on in another article but for this article I want to concentrate on "Attractive Traits" that will attract any women you want if you are single or keep your Girlfriend in your life for good if you are in a relationship or married.
Confidence
Confidence is one of the most attractive traits to women - just think about the local jerk that seems to get every gorgeous girl in the vicinity. It's simply his confidence that women are attracted to not that women are attracted to jerks!
So step 1- do yourself a favor and do everything you can to gain confidence (see my other articles for specific confidence building techniques)
Self Assurance
Self assurance is another extremely attractive trait to women. They want to be with someone who is not scared to voice their own opinion and beliefs or disagree with something someone has said. Far too many men become doormats and as a relationship grows they begin losing their self assurance and begin agreeing with everything, not voicing what they truly believe and slowly the women becomes the dominant one in the relationship and bang, you know the outcome!
So step two - don't be scared to voice your own opinions and beliefs women will love you for it!
Leadership
Leadership is probably in my opinion the most important trait a man can display. Women are followers and expect you to always have a plan. Don't be one of these men that when asked "What do you want for dinner?" say "I don't know, what do you want?" or "where shall we go tonight?" "I don't know, where do you want to go tonight?". It is extremely unattractive and every time you display this trait she will lose attraction to you without even realising it.
Finally step 3 - start being a leader, display leadership qualities and the women will flock. If you already have a girlfriend or wife it is even more important to display the traits I have mentioned, because it is easy to get into bad habits and lose your way. Sooner or later your partner will realise that she is no longer attracted to you and she'll be asking for that chat. And soon after that you will be writing to me asking how to get my ex back, or how to save your marriage.
I hope you found this article of some use, please feel free to check out my other articles. Until next time...
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